I have always had a problem with filtering what I say, nothing new to anyone. I have been the person to never say NO. This has changed since the stroke. I had a left hemisphere stroke, it messes with language skills. When I mouth vomit now, I think of my hero Sophia Petrillo from The Golden Girls! She was a stroke survivor on the show and that makes me love her character even more!
I like how I do not let some folks push me around anymore and I have learned how to say NO! I can't believe that some of my thoughts just pop out of my mouth!