My reactions can be the pits at times! I am a reactor and even though I have been practicing not to react so quickly I am not good at the practice.
I am pretty good at not reacting to my daughter's tantrums, but I react to quickly to my significant other and parents in a negative way.
I do believe that there are no failures and everything is a learning experience, but I tend to stand up for my feelings without listening.
I am throwing this out to the masses to show that I know I need to stop, listen and think before reacting. I can do it.